鈥淚 didn鈥檛 know that I could express myself in these ways. After high school, I looked at majoring in sports medicine. When I first started back, I thought about coaching and teaching,鈥 says Welch, who re-started his college journey at Schoolcraft College in 2018 and transferred to 萝莉社-Dearborn in 2020. 鈥淎s this middle-aged guy, I wrote an essay in English class about my attempts to recreate the original Irish coffee and got praise for it. It was the first time I remember getting praise for my writing. I submitted that essay to Lyceum my first year here and it was published. That opened up a new world for me. I鈥檓 an introvert, but I learned how freeing it was to express myself. So I kept looking for ways to do that.鈥
Reflecting on his life between the end of high school and now, Welch says after those two years of college, he joined the Navy in 1994 鈥 inspired by his uncles and cousin, who were in that U.S. military branch. He then worked with his brother as a volunteer firefighter in Novi. He later became a supervisor for an EMS company and worked there for more than a decade. Then, when Welch鈥檚 father called him to help manage the family store, Hershey鈥檚 Shoes in Garden City, Welch stepped away from his EMS career in 2012 to assist his dad.
鈥淲hen the family calls for help, you go,鈥 says Welch, who worked at Hershey鈥檚 Shoes until his father retired and the store closed in December 2022. 鈥淚 could have taken over the store, but I knew it wasn鈥檛 for me. I wasn鈥檛 the best version of me when I worked there. I appreciate the opportunities my dad gave me, but I was in school and pursuing my own path. I wanted to see where it would lead me.鈥
So where have the last few years at 萝莉社-Dearborn taken him? He鈥檚 graduating summa cum laude. He鈥檚 met new friends, found a love of garden work and writing, and shown himself what is possible 鈥 all while working full time and trying out new things. 鈥淚鈥檝e learned that it鈥檚 OK to be a little bit uncomfortable,鈥 he says. 鈥淵ou usually come out on the other side with a new skill or perspective. It just means that you are growing.鈥
Nearing the end of his college journey, Welch says he still can鈥檛 believe the transformation he鈥檚 gone through while on campus. He attributes it to the people he鈥檚 met at 萝莉社-Dearborn.
Welch says the SOAR Program, which is a go-to resource space for older adult learners, helped him transition back to college after nearly 30 years. Because of the SOAR program, he always had a computer to use, knew where to go for help and had a built-in community of other Dearborn Wolverines who were returning to school.
He says Communications Professor Tim Kiska鈥檚 journalism courses introduced him to new ways of telling stories and serving the community through news writing, which led Welch to start a side hustle in freelance journalism.
And his full-time 萝莉社-Dearborn landscaping position helped him balance school, finances and expression. 鈥淢y boss was great about helping me work my schedule around school,鈥 says Welch, who is participating in the graduation ceremony in April, but officially graduates in August. 鈥淭here鈥檚 nothing like the freedom of being outside, seeing the results of what you鈥檝e done and having work be a little bit different every day.鈥
As graduation approaches, Welch says he鈥檚 going to enjoy his last few months of college. He鈥檒l continue his landscaping role 鈥 but he鈥檚 also received job offers for newspaper reporter positions once his degree is complete. 鈥淚鈥檝e learned that following what makes you happy is the most important thing. I have a lot to think about,鈥 he says. 鈥淏ut I want to concentrate on finishing school first.鈥
Daughter Abbie isn鈥檛 able to attend the April 27 ceremony in person 鈥 she鈥檚 in L.A. working in the movie industry and visited Welch last month 鈥 but she鈥檒l get up early to watch the of her dad getting his diploma. Welch says his parents will be in attendance. And they'll see their hard-working son get a degree that was three decades in the making.
鈥淚 hope they are proud, like I was of Abbie. I did this for them. I did this for Abbie. I did this for me,鈥 Welch says. 鈥淣othing can change the past. But you can make decisions now that can change the course of your future.鈥
Article by Sarah Tuxbury.