
But she didnāt know how it would play with a broader crowd. A few years later, the answer is pretty clear: It plays. Today, she says her online following includes ājust about every kind of person from every background you could think of.ā Hereās what Fahmy had to say about her breakthrough as a comic artist and the challenges of navigating in a space where diversity is often front and center.
1. Donāt always do what youāre good at.
Never let anybody find out youāre really good at something that bores you. For me, that was teaching: It came really naturally, but I just wasnāt into it. On the other hand, when I decided to start writing comics, the thing I had to overcome right away is that I didnāt draw. Really. But Iām working really hard at it. And I realized what was going to sell this ā if people liked it all ā was the story. And thatās turned out to be totally true.
2. Check your intention before asking somebody a question.
The main character in my comic is sort of like me if I said everything I wanted to say. I think a lot of the frustration comes from people asking the same questions over and over. Itās not that asking people questions is bad. But I think itās important to think about your intention. Like, the question that led to the title of my comic, āYes, Iām Hot in This,ā comes from people always asking me if I get hot when Iām wearing my hijab. But why do you care if Iām hot in this? It has absolutely no impact on your life, and if itās a hot day in Houston, the answer is pretty obvious because weāre all hot. So why are you really asking?
"Having a platform means that what I do and say now has consequences."
3. Sometimes controversy is unavoidable.
My whole thing is that I try to be really inclusive. But youāre bound to struggle. One time I did this piece that featured meat, and I didn't think anything of it. But then I got all these comments from vegans that were upset that my character was eating meat. And I was like, āOh shoot, the vegans! I totally offended them.ā
4. Donāt read the comments.
Iāve learned to stop reading my comment section. Instead, my husband is my buffer, and heāll filter them and tell me if he thinks something warrants a response. People can say some horrifyingly mean things, and for my own mental health, I canāt live in that space.
5. On being a reluctant spokesperson.
Itās really important not to look at every Muslim woman or man and treat them as a representative for their religion. For one, itās not their job. And two, thereās so much diversity in the community. That said, I canāt be blind to the fact that some people see me as a representative. So I try to make sure people know what Iām saying is not the answer for all Muslims. Having a platform means that what I do and say now has consequences ā even if I never dreamt that would happen.