Sometimes life has other plans. Sharon Harris not only believes thisâsheâs lived it.
Harris, College of Education Health and Human Services deanâs suite administrative assistant, said a chronic illness diagnosis at 22 changed her lifeâs path. And it steered her toward one of advocacy.
Harrisâwho was diagnosed with Lupus in 2002âstarted Lupus Detroit, a local nonprofit organization for Lupus awareness. She helps lead a monthly support group for the autoimmune disease. And she began a Detroit-based walk for Lupus that recently raised more than $40,000.
Harris, a native Detroiter, said before Lupus these are not goals she would have listed. But itâs not because Harris didnât want to help. Itâs because she didnât even know what Lupus was.
âWhen you make plans, God laughs. Then you are put on the path you were intended to walk,â said Harris, who won a $24,000 scholarship from the Detroit Free Press and Ford Motor Co. in high school to study journalism. âNo one expects to live with a chronic illness, especially one you had never even heard of. But you make the best with the cards you are dealt. Iâm not going to lie, some days itâs very difficult. But for each day you wake up and get out of bed, itâs important to live your purpose.â
She wanted to be a journalist because she enjoys peopleâsomething apparent when she greets people as they walk into the CEHHS deanâs office. Harris, who started at the university in March, gives support to students and is eager to offer office support to help push CEHHS and the university forward.
âIâve always wanted to be with people, find ways to make things better for others and get the word out,â Harris said. âItâs what energizes me now; itâs what energized me before my diagnosis too.â
When she was in her early 20s and in college at a university in Florida, Harris worked at the campus radio station, newspaper and broadcast news station. She said she felt ill her senior year, but attributed it to stress from her busy schedule and preparing for finals.
âMy mom was in Tallahassee for graduation and said, âWhatâs wrong with your face?â We always are playing, so I replied, âWhatâs wrong with yours?â Then I could see that she was serious,â Harris said. âI looked in the mirror and my skin was blotchy and discolored and I had a rash across my face. I promised my mom that I would visit a dermatologist once I moved back to Detroit after graduation.â
She said there were other symptoms tooâlike swollen joints, gastrointestinal issues and hair loss. Less than two months after earning her diploma, Harris was diagnosed with discoid lupus (lupus of the skin) and systemic lupus (lupus of the blood/organ systems).
âI had a disease that affects millions. Three out of 10 African American women are affected by Lupus. As an African American woman, how did I never hear of it? Most people donât know a thing about it. Even when I had obvious symptoms, no one around meâeven some doctorsâknew the signs,â she said, noting signs vary but frequently include a facial rash, weight loss, hair loss and joint pain.
Harris said by the time she received the correct diagnosis, she was so weak and sore that she had difficulty walking. She lost 30 pounds in less than a month. She had two strokes. She spent months in bed at her motherâs before the treatment began to improve her condition.
âBecause it is a chronic illness, I knew there would be times Iâd feel better between the flare ups. So I started thinking, âWhat would I do if it was my last day on Earth?â I was going to make what I could happen.â
While checking off her goalsâwhich included seeing the world as a flight attendant and having her own business as an eyelash specialistâshe felt a pull to represent the face of Lupus and educate others about it.
So she walked into the Lupus Alliance of America office in St. Clair Shores looking to buy a T-shirt and to volunteerâand came out with a communications job offer. From there, she began to meet other âLupus warriorsâ and hear their concerns about finances, research and needed support.
âI decided to take the successes that I had at the Lupus Alliance as encouragement to create my own lupus nonprofit," she said. "The forms that needed to be completed to establish a 501(c)3 were intimidating but I did it. On Jan. 29, 2012, the State of Michigan recognized Lupus Detroit as a nonprofit. That was one of the best days of my life.â
Now celebrating its fifth year, Harris sees how people are positively impacted by Lupus Detroitâs workâthrough scholarships, emergency fund grants, and overall support.
Harris attributes Lupus Detroit's accomplishmentsâlike raising more than $40,000 at their annual walk without having a physical office or staffâ to the five-person board of directors working in unison and genuinely having a heart for Lupus warriors.
For Lupus Detroitâs work, the university recently recognized Harrisâ "outstanding service to the disability community" with a Certificate of Appreciation at the 2017 James T. Neubacher Award Ceremony. Harris also was awarded a 2013 Spirit of Detroit award and a 2014 Essence magazine mention.
âLike I said, things didnât turn out like I expected them to. And that is ok. I have a new normal, with new goals, new battles to be won, a new purpose,â she said. âIt was all preparation to get me right where Iâm supposed to be.â